ESSAYS & ARTICLES
That "Should" Voice–Keep it Quiet!
Q. Dear Goddess: Over the 4th-of-July weekend, looking at everyone having fun on the beach, I had a meltdown. I thought: I should have a …
Moral Repression 101: It Doesn't Work
Q: Dear Goddess, why is everyone so obsessed, still, over Mark Sanford’s affair in Argentina? Think of Clinton, or Kennedy, or the hundreds of other …
"Must We Sleep in Separate Beds?"
Q. Dear Goddess: My lover, who is a widower, is in his late 40s. This weekend, we’re visiting his 25-year-old son, Bob, whom I’ve not yet met, …
Infidelity or Hypocrisy: Which is Worse?
Q. Dear Goddess: So, are you mad at Mark Sanford for his infidelity? –Jane A. No, Jane, not as mad at him for that as I …
Choose Happiness: Go Against Type
Dear Goddess: Try as I might, I keep going out with similar kinds of men-men who don’t look or act the same-in fact I make …
Put That Phone Away–or Don't Date!
Q. Dear Goddess: A man complained to me that I had my phone on the table during our first date. I always have my phone on the …
When Your Lover Wants More "Space"
Q. Dear Goddess: My lover has been talking a lot about wanting more “space.” When I ask him what he means, he can’t explain it …
Borderline Boyfriends
Q. Dear Goddess: My new boyfriend, who is driving me crazy, tells me he has Borderline Personality Disorder. What is it, and do I want …
On "International Man Day"
Today is International Man Day. Founders (as reported this morning on “Good Morning America”) say it’s time for men to “reclaim their crown.” …