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8 Ways to Survive Heartbreak Hell (part 1 of a 2-part program)
It’s worse than that he’s no longer into you; he no longer loves you. He doesn’t return your calls. He is seeing someone else. …
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More on "He Wants To Open Our Marriage"
I was up late last night thinking about the answer I gave Sunday to Harriet, whose husband told her he wants to sleep with other …
When His Fantasies Include–And Exclude–You
Here’s a question for you, my dearest lovers down there on earth. It comes from a reader, and normally I’d put this in the Ask …
Top 5 Questions I’m Asked About Valentine’s Day
1. So Goddess, here’s the thing: I’m ready to roll—Brazil- waxed into a red heart shape, skin exfoliated, and so forth (as you suggested some …
Have I Reached My Sexual Peak?
Q: I’m in my late thirties, happily involved with a man I love, and I keep hearing about reaching my “sexual peak”? If not now, …
On Women's Desire… Again
I’m getting a nice amount of mail regarding the letter in the New York Times last Sunday (by Dalma Heyn, my earthly persona). I was disappointed …
On the Joy of Being Single
Before we move headlong into the high holy day of love, which of course is meaningful to your Love Goddess (mostly because my son, Cupid, …
Waiting for Him to Divorce
Q: I’m 25 and with a man who has promised to get a divorce for three years, but keeps saying he doesn’t want his children …
Love Never Hurts Us. WE hurt us.
The Goddess has taken yoga lessons for thousands and thousands of years. And with each teacher I learn something radical and wonderful. Ned, one of …
Ten Days Left to Rethink Valentine's Day
Saks Fifth Avenue has sent your Goddess its Valentine’s Day page, as have all the other stores, showing gifts to give my Valentine. On this …