ESSAYS & ARTICLES
The Winter of Our Discontent
“THE HEATING BILLS ARE RUINING OUR MARRIAGE!” says a lovely young wife from Rhode Island. They were married in June, and even before the geraniums …
The Goddess Interviews a Mortal Male About Online Dating
Dear Readers: Today we will observe a man who falls into one of my favorite categories: Dating Again. You know that “dating again” is hard …
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Relationships as a Topic for Literature
On the cover of today’s New York Times Book Review is a review of the new biography, Flannery: A Life of Flannery O’Connor, by Brad …
Love and No Money Equals Abuse?
I’m hearing too many stories about what joblessness and money woes are doing to relationships. More wife-beating. More verbal abuse. More men saying things (to …
Working too hard at sex
Q: I have a new boyfriend and already feel I’m working too hard at sex. Can you help? A: You’ll rest easier if you ditch …
Now it's Time to Let Go of Him: A 2-part Finale
Dearest wounded lovers, I assume you’ve spent the weekend in bed and followed the 8-part program to get yourself out of Heartbreak Hell. You’re rested. …
8 Ways to Survive Heartbreak Hell, part 2
Dear heartbroken ones, I hope you took to your bed yesterday and are still there. Here are four more musts for getting through this hideous …
The sex is good but can it get better?
Q: Sex between my beloved and me doesn’t blow my mind. But we’re comfortable and confident together. Can sex ever get better? A: No one …