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Girls, Trust Me: He Isn't Sorry

                Listen, I thought I’d seen it all up here at the top of the universe, what with the gods’ and goddesses’ perverse antics.  Have …

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Finding Your Soulmate Online Gets Going

 “Forget this silly internet,” someone announced at a party at Bacchus’s place the other night, “You only meet your soulmate at a friend’s house.” “Or …

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Kindness

          Karen Glenn, my good friend who lives in Carbondale, Colorado, has been sending out poetry each week to her friends and colleagues for years. …

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A Sacred Place for Women’s Pleasure

I read something serious about sex in yesterday’s New York Times Style section. For context, let me tell you–on the chance that you don’t know …

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Most-Asked Question #5: "Should I HATE Him?"

Q. Is it possible to really hate the person you love?         A. Are you kidding?  In my thousands of years with my partner, believe me, I …

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The Most-Asked Questions About Love #4: "Why Do Men Cheat?"

  Q. Why do Men Cheat?  A.   Because they can. Or, let me frame that differently. Because, for so long, they could. Without consequences.  And because other …

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The Most-Asked Questions About Love, #3

Q: I love my boyfriend: Why am I still so sexually attracted to other guys? A: Because, dearest earth girl, you are human. Whoever told …

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That romance…

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Your Most-Asked Questions About Love: #2

This question might surprise you, since no smart, autonomous young lover imagines that anyone could fall prey to that odd loss of self one heard …

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Your Most-Asked Questions About Love: #1

Every once in awhile I like to share the questions I’m most often asked that year.  Some questions, like the one today, make the rounds for centuries because they …

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