It’s worse than that he’s no longer into you; he no longer loves you. He doesn’t return your calls. He is seeing someone else. You’ve got to get it together, but something has come apart in you, and you can’t. I’m here to tell you how to get a grip. I promise, from thousands of …
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I was up late last night thinking about the answer I gave Sunday to Harriet, whose husband told her he wants to sleep with other women and, that he’d like her to join in. Because this is a blog, and not a book, or even a prepared talk, I answered her question (“Should I?” ) …
Here’s a question for you, my dearest lovers down there on earth. It comes from a reader, and normally I’d put this in the Ask The Goddess section of this site, but I’m hearing it so often that I want to blog instead. This is from Harriet: “I have been happily married for over ten years. …
1. So Goddess, here’s the thing: I’m ready to roll—Brazil- waxed into a red heart shape, skin exfoliated, and so forth (as you suggested some time ago). It’s my fifth date with a man I met online, and Valentine’s Day night, we both know, is THE night. Whose place should we go to for this, …
Q: I’m in my late thirties, happily involved with a man I love, and I keep hearing about reaching my “sexual peak”? If not now, when? A: Ah yes, the sexual peak problem. It’s as if you, sexually active throughout her twenties but not emotionally secure till now, feel you’ve scaled a kind of developmental …
I’m getting a nice amount of mail regarding the letter in the New York Times last Sunday (by Dalma Heyn, my earthly persona). I was disappointed by the layout of the article the previous week on women’s desire (a subject I’ve been involved in for thousands of years), not because it was photographed by a man–that’s fair enough; …
Before we move headlong into the high holy day of love, which of course is meaningful to your Love Goddess (mostly because my son, Cupid, is such a pivotal figure in it), I want to put on the breaks for a moment in honor of living single. I want to stress the joy of it, …
Q: I’m 25 and with a man who has promised to get a divorce for three years, but keeps saying he doesn’t want his children put through a trauma. He thinks I should “compromise” and just let things be as they are. Why doesn’t this FEEL like a “compromise”? A: Because it’s not a compromise. …
The Goddess has taken yoga lessons for thousands and thousands of years. And with each teacher I learn something radical and wonderful. Ned, one of my all-time favorite teachers, stresses one theme again and again: Yoga is not work. It is not “exercise.” It is not about no-pain-no-gain, feel-the-burn working out; on the contrary, it’s …
Saks Fifth Avenue has sent your Goddess its Valentine’s Day page, as have all the other stores, showing gifts to give my Valentine. On this page here is a Morgan Cycle Retro Scooter; a Victorinox Swiss Army Watch; a Bowers & Wilkins Zepplin IPOD speakers; Mariebelle Vanity Purse Chocolates. Does Jove want any of this …
