Q: Every guy I meet on Facebook wants me to send topless pictures, or more. I’m intimidated by this but I’m 21 and want to stay on a social site. –Prudence
A: Dear Prudence,
Get off Facebook or make it clear to these prospective dates what you want. You’re in charge of who sees what parts of your body. (It’s called facebook, after all.) And you’re goal isn’t to attract a zillion horny guys, but one or two guys who can keep their horns to themselves until the two of you meet and want to make love.