Comments on: On Turning TO Your Lover http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2009/01/20/on-turning-to-your-lover/ Dalma Heyn - Psychotherapist & Pet Loss Grief Counselor Tue, 13 Jul 2021 19:40:38 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 By: Sarah http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2009/01/20/on-turning-to-your-lover/#comment-60 Mon, 26 Jan 2009 01:11:00 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com.s60578.gridserver.com/?p=6#comment-60 This is such a powerful post. Barack is giving us a template for how to bring other people in – and it’s so hard to accept – it doesn’t feel right to get next to people we can’t stand, people who we think are small minded and want to do damage to other people – and we’ll see how he’s able to work this in governing (pretty soon, with the economic package).

For me, I so notice when I’m harboring ill will toward my man, as though he’s an obstacle to getting what I want – almost an adversary instead of a teammate. I’m trying these days to really look at how I see him, and instead of acting super nice and giving to him to cover up my anger – whatever it’s from, I just want to see him as my teammate. Thanks, Sarah

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