Comments on: Danger: Divorced Man Ahead http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/11/05/danger-divorced-man-ahead/ Dalma Heyn - Psychotherapist & Pet Loss Grief Counselor Tue, 13 Jul 2021 19:43:25 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 By: the love goddess http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/11/05/danger-divorced-man-ahead/#comment-31 Fri, 07 Nov 2008 02:52:26 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com/?p=176#comment-31 Once again, GOL, you bring wisdom and warmth to our galaxy! Your rules are good–I’d add more time, if possible, to the divorced-lover column, and perhaps less to the widowed-lover column, only because widowers, and particularly widowers who had good marriages, are so vulnerable that they tend to enter new relationships quickly…and an interested woman might have to be break the rules a bit here. I’m not of the grab-him-because-he’s-available school of thought, but I’m instinctively more flexible with the newly widowed….I think the topic makes a very good upcoming blog.
TLG

]]> By: God of Love http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/11/05/danger-divorced-man-ahead/#comment-32 Thu, 06 Nov 2008 18:05:43 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com/?p=176#comment-32 God of Love’s rule of thumb for dating anyone divorced, male or female:

1 year minimum. Add one full year for each decade of the terminated marriage.

Widowhood: 1 year from spouse’s death. Add one full cup of extra love and kindness.

GOL

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