Comments on: why men love (and don't love) strong women http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/09/02/why-men-love-and-dont-love-strong-women/ Dalma Heyn - Psychotherapist & Pet Loss Grief Counselor Tue, 13 Jul 2021 19:43:54 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 By: One Who Watches http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/09/02/why-men-love-and-dont-love-strong-women/#comment-8 Tue, 09 Sep 2008 01:07:36 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com/?p=197#comment-8 What about the strong woman who seeks out the more passive man because she feels that she will be “in control” of things that way? Then years later she finds that she has to do everything herself because she picked the passive man.

Talk about HOISTED by your own petard! Take it from one who knows.

I love your blog, TLG. It’s so real.

]]> By: danny http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/09/02/why-men-love-and-dont-love-strong-women/#comment-9 Mon, 08 Sep 2008 21:30:41 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com/?p=197#comment-9 I absolutely agree. Have gotten myself in difficult positions before on this. This totally clarifies it for me! Thank you Goddess!

]]> By: Cautious guy http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/09/02/why-men-love-and-dont-love-strong-women/#comment-10 Sat, 06 Sep 2008 23:00:56 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com/?p=197#comment-10 Thank you Goddess! Your conversational style and observations of all things love-struck, are wonderful. As to this recent post about strong women, my experience tells me that many mothers are not all-powerful or dominant, except in ways that they imprint us with their character, strong or weak. As kids we often see a weak mother tranform herself for the public or friends. Guys I have spoken to about this often think that “strong” women are really masking something else, so there is a sense, unfounded or not, that they maybe chasing a mouse in a tiger suit, making the men cautious at best and fearful at the very worst. How do we men, and women for that matter, avoid a bait and switch when it comes to falling for strength?

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