Comments on: "If I were only prettier" and other myths about Desire http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/08/31/if-i-were-only-prettier-and-other-myths-about-desire/ Dalma Heyn - Psychotherapist & Pet Loss Grief Counselor Tue, 13 Jul 2021 19:43:54 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 By: the love goddess http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/08/31/if-i-were-only-prettier-and-other-myths-about-desire/#comment-12 Mon, 08 Sep 2008 19:48:15 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com/?p=199#comment-12 Dear Anxious but Willing,
Once you know you’re sexy, feel it in your bones–which is an inner “move” you make–the question of what to do with your partner is a relational move. You ask for examples, but really, I need examples from you before I can say whether fantasy play will work. Is yours a new or established relationship? Are you comfortable playing with each other, or are you feeling pressured to keep both libidos going? Is your partner’s desire on a part with yours? Is this a question of wanting to share your desire, or of discovering a surprising new lack of it? You see, dear A but W, I need examples, too…..
TLG

]]> By: Anxious but Willing http://wordpress.dalmaheyn.com/2008/08/31/if-i-were-only-prettier-and-other-myths-about-desire/#comment-13 Tue, 02 Sep 2008 20:50:15 +0000 http://blog.thelovegoddess.com/?p=199#comment-13 Okay, goddess, so sexiness lies within, but what does the goddess suggest specifically to make a woman feel her inner sexiness? Fantasy play? Give us some examples.

Anxious but Willing

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